Thursday, March 31, 2011

About the widget below

If you have never read the books about the 5 love languages, then here is a chance for you to see what they are about. We all know that open, honest, respectful communication is important to a marriage. Sometimes that can be a difficult, so this may be a tool that can help in that area. It is so important for each of us to understand how we personally feel and receive love- not only so we understand ourselves better, but so that our spouses and even other family members and friends can understand us better and show us love the way we feel it. And also, if not more important, because we can only control our own actions, we can learn how our spouse best feels loved so we can make sure that they know that we care enough about them to show them in the way they receive and feel love. Our lives can be crazy, and we live in a world that is becoming increasingly selfish and values the sanctity of marriage and family less with each passing day. It is so easy to get caught up in the business of life, easy to get caught up in that which might destroy our marriages and families. We need to do all we can to fortify our families and strengthen the bonds of marriage. Regardless of whether or not you use this tool, find out show you can better show your spouse love- in the way that they will receive and feel it best. Christ needs to be our foundation. And right above that, or perhaps so intricately tied in, would be the need for love, kindness, respect and consideration. Christ, through His Holy Spirit, speaks to us in a way that He knows we will best feel and understand. Would it not be the Christ-like way to live to do the same for our loved ones- show them love in the way that they best know, feel and understand?

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